is a writer, teacher, and porch-sitter. He and his wife Emily work to live the agrarian life in urban Little Rock, AR.
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    My house is probably my greatest anchor to place. In the past three houses I've lived in, I've known quite a bit about the people that came before me. That gave me a sense of how the house was used in the past and what it's meant to others. Then I further anchor myself with the house by customizing the insides (paint, furniture, decorations, etc.) and digging in on the outside (gardening, particularly planting new things and maintaining what was already there).

    The next circle out involves connecting to my neighborhood. I love that our neighborhood elementary school is only 4 blocks away. As I'd walk to school with the kids we'd often see a person or two we knew along the way, then gradually more and more people would join us in our walk until we'd finally arrive at the school in the midst of a herd of people, of neighbors. The kids would run into the building and the parents often stand around and chat for quite awhile before each going our own way. My kids are almost done at the elementary and more often go without me these days, so I really miss that feeling of “coming together” among our neighbors.

    And then there's the wider steps of shopping within walking distance. Dining out in restaurants we can bike or walk to, etc. Walking and biking, I find, help to build a sense of place in a more intimate way than driving does. And learning the history of our neighborhood and city mean that as I walk I have not only spacial connections that I'm making, but connections through time as well.

  • http://barefootmeg.multiply.com barefootmeg

    My house is probably my greatest anchor to place. In the past three houses I've lived in, I've known quite a bit about the people that came before me. That gave me a sense of how the house was used in the past and what it's meant to others. Then I further anchor myself with the house by customizing the insides (paint, furniture, decorations, etc.) and digging in on the outside (gardening, particularly planting new things and maintaining what was already there).

    The next circle out involves connecting to my neighborhood. I love that our neighborhood elementary school is only 4 blocks away. As I'd walk to school with the kids we'd often see a person or two we knew along the way, then gradually more and more people would join us in our walk until we'd finally arrive at the school in the midst of a herd of people, of neighbors. The kids would run into the building and the parents often stand around and chat for quite awhile before each going our own way. My kids are almost done at the elementary and more often go without me these days, so I really miss that feeling of “coming together” among our neighbors.

    And then there's the wider steps of shopping within walking distance. Dining out in restaurants we can bike or walk to, etc. Walking and biking, I find, help to build a sense of place in a more intimate way than driving does. And learning the history of our neighborhood and city mean that as I walk I have not only spacial connections that I'm making, but connections through time as well.